I dated this guy briefly who was... well... noisey. And yes, I'm talking in that context. But the funny thing was, we only ever got to making out because we didn't date for that long. We'd be kissing and he'd be moaning and breathing all heavily pretty constantly. I mean, I love kissing but jeez! Calm down! I can only imagine what he would be like if we went any further than that. To some extent I like a little bit of response so that I know the other person is enjoying themselves, but there is such a thing as too much. It gets distracting if there's too much noise. Of course, as things escalate, more noise becomes acceptable. But there's still a limit (especially volume-wise), at least for me living in my small Brooklyn apartment with thin walls...
Thoughts? I suppose this may be one of those "scandalish" moments where you may want to comment anonymously. I shouldn't assume that all people are as open about this kind of thing as I am, haha.
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Wow, that would completely creep me out. I'd be like "Chill. Quit weezing all over me..." My ex ex ex girlfriend did that to me alot. She broke up with me because i had a problem kissing her. Lol.
Not much of experience, but I don't think I'd like that... I can get a dog if I wanted someone to drool and pant over me... lol
Yeah, I'm basically the same way. If I had to pick between too quiet and too noisy, I think I'd take too quiet. Too noisy (esp. if it's overdone!) is a total mood-killer.